France · the looking board

Bondage personals in Paris

Paris talks about rope more than any other board here, and talks about it well: what it is for, what it does to two people, what a partnership owes both of them. That suits somebody who wants to be understood before they are touched and exhausts anyone who would rather get on with it. The flat is the practical limit nobody escapes. Small rooms, thin walls and a neighbour permanently on the landing mean the question of where gets settled long before the question of when.

Posts come from the Marais, Belleville, the 11th, the 15th and the inner suburbs. People lead with their side of the city because a rope evening has to survive the journey home.

Pinned to the door

A post here is somebody saying what they want from rope and who they want it with. Say what you tie or how you like to be tied, how long you have been at it, and roughly where you are. Leave out the rest. No names, email addresses, phone numbers, messaging handles, links to other profiles or photographs are published on this board, and none are asked for. Nothing here is for hire either. Nobody is selling a session, a tie or an hour, and a post that tries comes off the same day.

Off too: a post describing somebody who did not write it, and the same paragraph pinned to six cities at once. Everything else stays up for forty-five days and then comes down, because a rope partner found in April should not still be advertised in July. If a post reads wrong to you, there is a flag on it, and pulling that is better than writing back. Posting and answering both run through your own account rather than this page.

Nothing pinned here yet. The board opens in Paris shortly.

The rest of the scene in Paris

A board is one way into a local scene and the narrowest one. Most people who tie in Paris met somebody in a room, not on a page like this.

What a rope workshop evening is actually like
Dating inside an online rope community
The rules nobody posts on the door
What dating inside a small scene costs you

The other boards

A scene is a different size in every city, and the board runs in 21 of them.

New York Los Angeles Miami Houston Dallas London Manchester Liverpool Birmingham Glasgow Berlin Hamburg Madrid Lyon Amsterdam São Paulo Rio de Janeiro Toronto Sydney Moscow

Pin yours in Paris

A board full of people looking is no use until one of them is you. To put a post in front of people who tie near you, and to answer theirs, use the platform this site connects to.

Post to this board →