X-dressing...and 180 degree turnarounds

because my x-dressing is so incredibly feminine, I notice that when I dress in a regular way—wearing rugged jeans with steel-toe boots and flannel shirts—I’m almost unconsciously slipping into “straight” male attire. I often wonder if other ladies here do the same thing as an overcompensation for their hidden wish to appear like a glamorous girl while x-dressing This hit me when I was looking at my shoes and noticed these two side by side: one represents peak masculine authority: … egoryID=28 and the other is the ultimate sign of a tied-up bondage slave: … tml (both are ironically crafted from black patent leather… almost as if they form a twisted “his and hers” set)