Spontaneous Dare: On-and-Off Challenges

I wasn’t entirely sure where to place this post or what title would fit best.

I enjoy two kinds of kinkier activities: one is a structured dare, carefully considered and based on my desires; the other is more spontaneous. A simple example is asking a friend which part of their body they most recently had hair removed from, then doing the same to myself.

Last night I felt a strong desire to be gagged. Since I’m still getting accustomed to ball gags, my jaw starts hurting after about half an hour, and I wanted to build up some endurance.

The rule was straightforward: whenever I won as player in the computer game, I could remove the gag; if I lost or drew, it stayed on (or went back on). This concept can apply to many things. Here are a few ideas that came to me this morning:

• Pick a team (the Rugby World Cup is a good current example); every time your team scores, the item comes off, and when the opposing team scores, it goes back on.
• Use television adverts; select a specific product so that whenever you see an ad for a car, for instance, you perform the action.

This can be adapted to almost anything. It doesn’t have to involve just one item going on and off—it could be several items at once. Last night I considered adding combination locks to my gag but hesitated because I’m still nervous about it; however, that’s certainly another possibility.

If you like this idea or already use similar methods, please let me know what triggers work for you:twisted:

I believe I lost most of the games last night. I’m not sure if I intentionally made myself lose or if it was just bad luck:)