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Bondage Advice For My Boyfriend

Hello everyone! I’m fairly new here. My partner and I have been together for almost four years now... He’s really into bondage, while I wasn’t as keen at…

member_ea00a95e4a 14 Sept 2026 #1

Hello everyone! I’m fairly new here. My partner and I have been together for almost four years now… He’s really into bondage, while I wasn’t as keen at first, but lately I’ve started to appreciate it more. Interestingly, he actually prefers being the one tied up rather than me doing it (I’ll explain that further down). I’m hoping for some advice because I want to add a bit more excitement to our routine; he wants more intensity or variety, but I’m not quite sure where to start or what specific actions would help. We currently use appropriate restraints for tying each other up. So far we’ve experimented on the bed in various positions and also in the living room, so if you have any additional suggestions, please share them!

Typically, I bind his arms, legs, and thighs, then place a blindfold over his eyes to block his vision and apply tape across his mouth. I tease him by playing with his entire body and penis, often using lubricant… Sometimes I step away leaving him bound like that; he prefers a leisurely pace rather than being rushed. Occasionally I’ll go take a shower, return to continue teasing him, then leave again for a short while to change clothes before coming back… At times I lie beside him or sit on top of him. When he’s about to climax, I pause the stimulation to keep teasing him just long enough… until finally he cums.. Yet he still craves more, so I’m uncertain what else I can do for him.

Could anyone offer some guidance?:)