new member exploring self-bondage and BDSM

Hey yall, I’m from Texas and consider myself a country girl. My husband and I enjoy BDSM quite a bit, but he isn’t home most days. I spend the hours between 5am and 5:20pm by myself. I’ve been fond of self-bondage since I was about eight years old; back then, my sister and I played a kidnapping game where I discovered I really loved that kind of play.;):gag::hi: 8). Please share any ideas with me—I’m looking for anything except public humiliation. My next paycheck, I plan to buy a pair of handcuffs so I can try freezing the key in ice and enjoy the suspense of my husband finding out if he comes home early. He mentioned that if he found me tied up, he would take advantage of me and keep me bound until it suited him. We are both open to new ideas as well; we’d be grateful for anything but public humiliation. Thanks Sincerely jessiebear.

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