Providing Support for Self-Bondage Enthusiasts

I’m Kitten, a 32-year-old woman who has been passionate about BDSM and self-bondage since childhood. My first encounter with tying myself up happened in the woods when I was just 14. Over my 14+ years in the scene, I’ve experimented with various community scenarios and can easily provide references if needed.

Self-bondage is now a core part of who I am. While I’m in a male/submissive dynamic where my partner keeps me securely tied up regularly, I realized there were moments when I wished for someone to act as a self-bondage buddy. Not necessarily someone to tie with me, but someone available to call if things go sideways while I’m bound—whether that means checking on me, calling for help, or coming over to untie me.

I’ve had close calls in the woods where my situation could have become life-threatening, so this is important to me. My goal is to offer reliable support: being a contact person during your planned tying times, confirming when you’ll be free, and handling emergencies if they arise. I might also serve as a babysitter for setups or scenarios that need supervision.

Please note, I’m not here in the role of a Domme or mistress, nor am I offering sexual services. However, I understand you might occasionally need assistance repositioning toys during your session, and having orgasms (or multiple) afterward is no problem at all. Once my help is done, I’ll leave you to enjoy yourself.

I have an open mind and a history of intense play, including spending two weeks locked in a cage. Substances like poppers are not an issue for me either, as I’ve enjoyed them myself; very little surprises or shocks me now.

Based in Manchester, UK, I’m happy to help locals or travel further if the timing works out. Again, this is purely an offer of assistance rather than professional Domme/mistress or sexual services, and I don’t expect payment. Just trying to pay forward the kindness someone showed me years ago. This applies to men, women, and TG individuals alike.

Thanks, Kitten