Greetings and Introductions

Greetings everyone, I’ve been following the community discussions for a few weeks and finally decided to become a member. It’s wonderful to find so many others with similar interests. My fascination with bondage, self-bondage, submission, and gentle pain has existed since childhood. Living with my wife and two kids means opportunities are sometimes scarce. She does join in now and then and knows most of what I enjoy into kink territory. However, she isn’t entirely enthusiastic about the whole idea; ironically, it seems to genuinely bother her when she gets involved. I cherish our relationship and try not to be too much trouble, which is largely why my interest in self-bondage has grown again. The insights shared here have really impressed me (as well as some of the amusing missteps:?:). Many of you seem quite knowledgeable, and I look forward to swapping thoughts and feedback with you all. Cheers, BFA