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A modest trial of potential selfbondage setups and materials

Lately I've been trialing bits and pieces of potential selfbondage setups to gauge their effectiveness. This time around, the focus was on exploring a type…

member_ffaa0a5e39 14 Sept 2026 #1

Lately I’ve been trialing bits and pieces of potential selfbondage setups to gauge their effectiveness. This time around, the focus was on exploring a type of half suspension at a new spot. Alongside that, newly acquired army surplus PVC sheets were put through their paces. The goal was to evaluate two recently discovered anchoring points within the house. The trial itself aimed to see if these could support my partial weight and how comfortable this kind of half suspension would feel. These new fastening spots consisted of two metal bars jutting out roughly 30cm from the wall at shoulder height. I simply taped large D-rings to the ends of these posts; they were secure enough for this test, and even if the posts failed, it wouldn’t cause injury. So I lugged all the necessary gear to the location, plugged in a vibrating and inflating buttplug, and arranged everything. I laid down a towel and pillow on the floor, covering them with the PVC sheets. Next, I threaded both of my larger hemp ropes through the D-rings at their respective spots. I donned my leg cuffs, which are linked by a 50cm chain piece, then tied the corresponding ropes to my legs. The plan was that I could pull the legs upward and outward from the supports, while the chain would keep them close together. Then came a budget chastity device labeled “Strict Gates of Hell” by the seller. It’s not top-tier among chastity devices, but it lifts my penis slightly and restricts movement. The plug was set to low vibrations, inflated a bit more, with its controls resting on my stomach. Up next were my leather hand cuffs connected by a very short chain segment. Now for the real trial: seeing how pulling my legs up with the two ropes felt and worked in practice. It held up well enough. I hadn’t quite figured out optimal release methods yet, so I just kept holding the ropes myself. I discovered I could grip one rope while using the other hand to operate the pump and vibrator controls for the plug. This setup prevented me from touching my penis at all, which was frustrating in a pleasing way. Another objective was testing whether I could achieve orgasm solely through anal stimulation. The result was a satisfying “yes” as I cranked up the vibrations while pumping and deflating the plug. By then, my penis was positioned mostly above my face. When I came, I managed to swallow part of the ejaculate. I don’t particularly love the taste, but there’s something dirty and taboo about ingesting it for me, which is why doing so turns me on. Because of the various restraints, it took a while to make it to the shower. This gave the semen time to cool down on my face. Results:

  • The suspension setup works quite well; I just need to work out an effective release and emergency release before integrating it into scenarios.
  • It is fairly comfortable, though restricting movement definitely adds value if used for longer sessions.
  • The PVC sheets performed admirably. They were comfortable and simplified cleanup. Glad I bought 20 of them.
  • The restraining/fastening points held up, but I’m still unsure how they’d fare under struggle.
  • Overall a pleasant test; I even managed to cum from anal stimulation! Only the second time! -natq, or the fellow not so great at storytelling. Hope I have more exciting updates next time.