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i am 23m looking for a self-bondage dare / scenario, willing to try and experience any of your ideas. bondage materials: good amount of rope, duck tape, zip…

member_7e188c4991 13 Sept 2026 #1

i am 23m looking for a self-bondage dare / scenario, willing to try and experience any of your ideas. bondage materials: good amount of rope, duck tape, zip ties, neck ties, belts i am open to any and all ideas, so please share. i will wear what ever clothing you decide or as little clothing you decide, its up to you. i also have some female clothes if you are interested. (bra, panties, 3 pairs of pantyhose, several dresses, knee socks, leggings and shorts) hopefully i get some responses and dares / scenarios, i am looking forward to what you guys come up with. thanks

member_69c28c8145 14 Sept 2026 #2

A couple of questions for you: Are you looking for public or private (or risk of exposure like the "near a window" variation on most scenarios)? Do you have any specific fetishes or hard limits (admittedly, everything I can think of along those lines requires something you don't have, but I'm not the go-to-guy for fetish behaviors) How long a session do you want? How strenuous do you want the session to be? (Spread eagle on bed is something you can sleep in, a strict hog tie, only if you've been up a week straight or the like) Are you interested in sensory deprivation? (You don't list a blindfold, gag, or earplugs anywhere, but there are a lot of ways to improvise a gag or a blindfold, and a few somewhat effective methods of making makeshift earplugs) How much rope, in how many pieces? Do you have enough for a karada (body harness) or similarly rope-demanding ties, or just smaller lengths for more practical ties. (Note that smaller ties are often much less comfortable - if you're lifting a leg with some rope and only have enough rope to loop the limb once, it'll dig in a lot more than when you have enough rope to do a dozen loops side-by-side) What resources do you have for tying yourself to things? (For instance, I have 4 wrist-ankle straps at the moment that are barely usable, since my current bedframe doesn't have any openings to tie the other end to, and my chair is similarly limited, if not quite so completely. Some people have bedframes with openings all over the place that enables some really interesting stuff, especially if they're willing to pull the mattress off for the session.) The more information like that you provide, the more directly applicable the dare you get will be.