Greetings from Oregon.

Greetings everyone; I’ve been dropping by the site for quite some time. Apologies for taking so long to introduce myself. Please bear with me. I’m still figuring out how this place operates. You may have already noticed my contributions. If any of them appear inappropriate or bothersome to you, I apologize. It was never my goal to cause offense. I simply wanted to kick off some discussions. As for what or perhaps who sparked my interest in bondage since childhood, it was the tales of Harry Houdini. First came my fascination with magic which led me to Houdini, and I’ve been drawn into bondage ever since. I often enjoy sleeping while shackled up. It would be even more thrilling if someone else held onto the key. Having grown up as a Mormon, I’m not seeking any kind of sexual involvement just yet; that comes later after marriage. For now, bondage suits me fine and I’d love to find a partner who shares my outlook. A blond-haired, blue-eyed woman in her mid-to-late 40s who is still single (never married and truly a virgin) would be ideal, but I’m open to possibilities. I’ve tested dating platforms with no success so far. If she enjoys bondage, that’s a bonus, and if she’d like me to try cross-dressing while bound, I’m happy to do it as well. wayneheidlebaugh

Hi Wayne!:hi:

welcome to the group, > member_5427cfc69a wrote:I'm still figuring out how this place operates. You may have already noticed my contributions. If any of them appear inappropriate > or bothersome to you, I apologize. It was never my goal to cause offense....... GAC as i'm the one who got weary of your "resurrections". > member_5427cfc69a wrote:....... I simply wanted to kick off some discussions...... deliberate, a board is not a dating platform or a chat room. it's a space for exchanging info &, hold on tight, yes, chatting, but you must choose your moments wisely. posting in a thread that is three years old won't help you start new conversations. going to the bowling alley with a ball locked to your ankle will. 8) 8) 8) alright, i can't resist any longer; i'm going to poke fun now in good spirit to encourage some conversation *and my only excuse is: i'm kinky & love the Utah Jazz* > member_5427cfc69a wrote: > Having grown up as a Mormon, I'm not seeking any kind of sexual involvement just yet was he raised on French wine? :mrgreen::mrgreen::mrgreen: > member_5427cfc69a wrote: > .......that comes later after marriage. i thought that only divorce or death followed marriage, but really sex???? there might be hope for me yet. :P:P:P:P > member_5427cfc69a wrote:For now, bondage suits me fine and I'd love to find a partner who shares my outlook. A blond-haired, blue-eyed woman in her mid-to-late > 40s who is still single (never married and truly a virgin) would be ideal, but i'm open to possibilities. i've tested dating platforms with no success so far. > if she enjoys bondage, that's a bonus, and if she'd like me to try cross-dressing while bound, I'm happy to do it as well. good luck on your search, wayne. this is a selfbondage board. guess why such a place exists; because finding a kinky partner with matching fetishes isn't easy. given your criteria above, you're ruling out about 99.9% of potential partners. maybe "a woman would be nice" as a criterion will help in your quest. you can raise the bar as you go.

Welcome! As Ponylady mentioned, keep an open mind toward all women and don't fixate on some "ideal" of physical perfection. You never know where love will appear.