Re: teamviewer mistress managing the PC

Forgive my bluntness, but I’m not entirely sure where the enjoyment comes from in your tale. Do you actually like these punishments? Is she merely dictating how much time you spend at your computer and what websites you visit, or are there specific duties you have to carry out for her? What’s her payoff within this dynamic?

Also, if your goal is to take back the reins, just wipe your hard drive and do a fresh install… pop in a Windows disc and it’s sorted. If you prefer a lighter touch, use another machine to update your Skype status or change a password she doesn’t know about. However, I suspect this might spoil the atmosphere of the game, so perhaps it isn’t the best move.

I’d be keen to understand what underpins your relationship and whether the control itself is what gets you going, or if there’s something else at play.