Sharing My Bondage Interests With A Potential Girlfriend

There’s a girl who wants to be with me, but I’m holding back because of my embarrassment over this bondage fetish. Being tied up is something I enjoy, which makes it easier for me compared to asking someone else to do the tying. I’ve already mentioned that I like “playing S&M,” and an ex-girlfriend and I did a lot of tie-ups just for fun years ago. However, revealing how much I really love this still feels strange.

It’s almost as if I’m “coming out” regarding my BDSM fetish to her, similar to when gay people share their sexuality with the world. The one thing that makes me happiest is being a prisoner to my lover and getting worked on; I should just tell her directly and observe how she reacts.