Struggling to share with women that I want to play with bondage

“I like being tied up” sounds right to me, but I struggle with saying it out loud. When the TV showed bondage scenes at first, my secret hobby felt hidden away and I still feel that way. However, I also really enjoy girl feet. Every woman in my circle knows this since I can simply state “I love girl feet,” which they find charming or whatever, leading them to offer free foot rubs. Some people think liking feet is a bit odd, but it’s not a huge deal and I don’t hide that side of me either.

Years ago, after getting close enough with two ex-girlfriends for me to admit my strong fondness for bondage, we played together often “by chance.” We ended up having a stash of chains and locks under the bed ready for playtime. My main worry is this: I don’t want to be in a relationship for a while only to finally mention wanting tie-up play and hear her say, “I can’t do that weird stuff.” With all these signs telling me it’s no big deal, I just can’t seem to voice what I like.