Hello there! Introduction with requests for suggestions

Hello all. I’m a married cross dresser who keeps it hidden, and I just found this site. I typically wear lingerie while traveling, but with my wife heading out for the next couple of weeks soon, I was considering buying more outfits along with some toys to explore some of these scenarios here. I’d love any advice or recommendations on what to purchase and try, aiming to see how convincing I can look.

Also, if you have suggestions for self-bondage routines I can manage while by myself, that would be wonderful. I enjoy having my nipples stimulated—like with clover clamps—and I’m willing to experiment with most things.

Does anyone have any thoughts?