Keeping Back the Climax: The Art of Orgasm Denial
I've thought about picking up a CB6k or something alike, yet my spouse and I have opted to experiment with orgasm denial for now. It's much like chastity,…
I’ve thought about picking up a CB6k or something alike, yet my spouse and I have opted to experiment with orgasm denial for now. It’s much like chastity, though teasing often plays a part. The concept of holding back from climaxing for a full week always seemed enjoyable. I came across the idea on along with several other sources.
The core premise is that the man avoids orgasm while going about his daily routine. He earns an orgasm only after his wife has achieved three or more herself; this might happen around a week later or whenever she decides he deserves it. Another delightful aspect is that her partner may be called upon to please her at any moment, whether using his cock or not. This keeps him attuned to her needs beyond just sexual release.
A key part of the appeal in orgasm denial is the unpredictability of when relief might come and the rule against begging for it directly. Meanwhile, the wife must recognize that he still requires some form of pleasure to remain content and compliant. She gains much from having a partner who desires but cannot always have his way.
I’ve practiced this multiple times now, and I truly love not being able to self-pleasure or specifically missing out on climaxing during intercourse! After one night where my wife was the only one to finish, I felt incredibly needy yet satisfied knowing I had pleased her. Since I usually wait a week before allowing myself to cum anyway, this challenge helped me endure it physically and mentally. By the next day, I was eager to tackle household chores (I am helpful, though not as much now). This shift made me instantly aroused whenever she touched any part of my body! A few more days in, just the thought of her or hearing her use a slightly sultry voice triggers arousal. I keenly want to kiss and please her, but only on her terms. If I act for my own benefit instead, she gets annoyed and ignores me for a while. It is such an incredible sensation!
Has anyone else tried this?