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A Few Toys in My Possession and Design

I’ve practiced self-bondage as long as I can recall. At fifty-six, I’ve been doing it since my teenage years. Back then, restraints were too expensive for…

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I’ve practiced self-bondage as long as I can recall. At fifty-six, I’ve been doing it since my teenage years. Back then, restraints were too expensive for me to afford, and there weren’t any local shops stocking them. So, I discovered that plastic snap-adjustable dog collars work wonderfully wrapped twice around the wrist or ankle, snappling together. You adjust them until they fit snugly tight. The second invention of mine is a harness designed to hoist me into the air. It consists of two very long dog collars and two shorter ones, all equipped with metal parts so they lock securely and stay in place. I form these into two circles around each leg and pass them through my crotch, positioning D-rings at both front and back on either side. The setup comes down the front between my balls and passes over one another through my anal crack. After lubricating and inserting a triple-ripple butt plug, I use a steel cable and pulley system to hoist myself upward. As I rise, the harness forces the butt plug deeper. Eye hooks on two trees allow me to lock my ankles in a spread position and raise my wrists high, creating a spread-eagle suspension. The ET-312 unit hangs from one tree, wired to my cock and balls. I am wearing a blindfold, gag, and earplugs. Paddles rest on the ground behind me because I invited someone over who might want to use them if they wish. My left wrist is padlocked to an eye hook. Once everything is set, I pull down my blindfold and take the thumb cuffs secured to my right wrist restraint, locking them onto the padlock at the eye hook. I have a key for these padlocks hanging from a chain that extends past my wrist. A bungee cord on a nearby tree allows someone to pull the key and chain out of reach if they arrive. If no one comes, I remain suspended as long as I can tolerate it before working the chain up to retrieve the key and unlock the padlock. Note that unlocking takes time because my vision is obscured by the blindfold. I use similar restraints indoors but have experimented with an ice timer. Recently, I’ve noticed software for timer-controlled releases and developed a new idea. I own an electric cabinet lock set to release when power is cut. Using CD tray timer software, I plan to install contacts on the CD tray so that opening it will release the steel cable holding one or both of my wrists. A benefit is that losing power triggers release, so if there’s a blackout, the unit opens automatically. Here is the link to the cabinet lock:

I will soon share experiences from self-bondage sessions in this setup. Also, I’ll explain one session at home using an ice timer while someone controls the ET-312 unit remotely over the internet.