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Hello from the Bristol Guy

Hello everyone, I just stumbled upon this site and it feels very relevant to my interests, so I wanted to share a few thoughts. My interest in self-bondage…

member_459db7f12a 7 Sept 2026 #1

Hello everyone, I just stumbled upon this site and it feels very relevant to my interests, so I wanted to share a few thoughts. My interest in self-bondage stems partly from frustration and the lack of flexible or available play partners. My civil partner is fully aware of my hobbies and what I enjoy; they have no problem with it, and we maintain an open relationship. Many of my fetish fantasies are ultimately impractical because many end up being snuff (in a sense)—though paradoxically, I don’t actually want to die! To date, I own a heavily modified roof box that I can seal myself. Escape is only possible after serious warm-up attempts; my use of polymorph plastic and a heat gun allows the lid to self-lock with some effort. Additionally, during my more hopeful phase, I attached several ratchet straps to the box. When used, these make it completely unescapable, whether or not tools are involved. There is an air hole threaded with a matching plug that remains fixed while I am inside. I also spent five weeks constructing a substantial, heavy wooden coffin tailored exactly to my height and capable of supporting significant weight. It is built directly into the house structure, surrounded by walls consisting of several layers of 18mm plywood along with heavy wooden framing and bracing between them. A heavy neck-clamping leather-lined head box fits inside it. If I were foolish enough to lock this first and then close the main lid, escape would be impossible. Thus, I have not yet experienced the full potential of this setup. I enjoy creating new dilemmas, especially using boxes, polymorph plastic (for gags and restraints), and find plenty of fun doing it solo. I hope to work with others one day, but self-bondage works quite well for me; I am fairly practiced at it:) the box.jpg