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Beginner Looking for This Week's Wednesday Scenario

Hello everyone, happy to have connected with you! I’m a 26-year-old guy who has always loved bondage and BDSM. Recently, I’ve begun taking self-bondage more…

member_e28e3514e2 7 Sept 2026 #1

Hello everyone, happy to have connected with you!

I’m a 26-year-old guy who has always loved bondage and BDSM. Recently, I’ve begun taking self-bondage more seriously, slowly adding new items to my gear collection. Below is an overview of what I own, my preferences, dislikes, and what I hope for:

Current Toys:

  • Inflatable butt plug with vibration
  • Smooth vibrator (about 5 inches long)
  • Ball gag
  • Sleep mask-style blindfold
  • One pair of real metal handcuffs
  • One pair of toy handcuffs (metal, sturdy, but easy to release by flicking a lever)
  • Lots of rope
  • Tweezer-style nipple clamps (not the best performance)
  • Lube
  • Toothpaste/Icy Hot (I’m still cautious about using these as they’re new to me)
  • Women’s clothes and underwear (for times when my partner is quite vanilla)
  • One combination padlock

Planned Purchases for Wednesday:

  • Clover-style nipple clamps
  • Possibly a standard dildo

What I Enjoy:

  • Bondage (obviously!)
  • Being gagged and blindfolded
  • Anal play
  • Nipple stimulation
  • The feeling of being at the mercy of someone or something else
  • Predicaments

Things I Want to Try But Am Unsure About:

  • Eating cum
  • Drinking urine

What I Dislike (a little):

  • CBT isn’t my top preference, though I do participate in it.

What I’m Looking For: A scenario that uses several of the toys listed above, featuring moderately restrictive bondage where I remain secured for a good stretch. A major focus should be on the inflatable plug. I also need accountability; while I’ve done plenty on Milovana, there’s no one specific to answer to—no one but myself to disappoint. Having someone accountable is key.

The scenario needs to fit within two and a half hours so that I can finish and clean up before my special person returns home.

Thanks in advance for any scenario suggestions! I really appreciate them, and as mentioned, I’m thrilled to have found this community. It gets lonely living with someone vanilla who doesn’t have much interest in exploring further. If you have highly recommended equipment purchases, please share!

I am nervous but excited! Thank you once more!