Well, Here's My Introduction

Hi all. I’ve been hanging around this site as a silent observer for the last few months, coming and going. Bondage has always appealed to me, whether on my own or with someone else. My current girlfriend isn’t really into it (though she deserves major bonus points for giving it a go; in fact, she’d never been bound before dating me), so lately I’ve spent most of that bonded time doing it alone—but safely.

I just bought an electromagnetic door lock and an AC adapter sleep timer to add to my collection. I’m eager for them to arrive, hopefully by Friday. That purchase is what finally pushed me to join the discussions here; I realized I’d need some advice on specific details if I get tangled up while trying to optimize how it works, but that’s a subject for its own thread.

I lean toward being a switch regarding who gets tied up, and I’m keen on both giving and receiving: Gagging/Sensory Deprivation Mummification (Never as self-bondage) Forced/Denied orgasm Anal play, including punishment-level enemas Long-term bondage Plus quite a few other niche interests that are hard to list here. I’m comfortable stepping outside the “norm,” so what can you expect?