BondageDating

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Greetings everyone. I’ve been lurking on these forums for a few days and am amazed by the number of others who share this interest. Thought I was quite…

member_fed5e6c7d9 7 Sept 2026 #1

Greetings everyone. I’ve been lurking on these forums for a few days and am amazed by the number of others who share this interest. Thought I was quite peculiar, lol.

A bit about me (gentleman seeking more ladies here), residing in southern England with a passion for self-bondage since childhood. Most of my outdoor dares are taken outside. The thrill of potential discovery is what drives it all; the higher the risk, the better and more thrilling it gets. Looking back over the years, I’ve undertaken numerous outdoor adventures, yet never been spotted outdoors, usually being quite careful with location selection. My top pick is upside-down suspension. I know some here think it’s a big no-no, but I can’t help myself; I just adore it.

I recall one particularly warm, sunny evening strolling up to my favorite old straw barn where I often practiced self-bondage. It was still bright and perilously close to the main road. I climbed atop the straw bales near the top of the barn (not stacked too high, around 30 feet) and secured my ankles to the metal beam running along the edge. Then I lowered myself until hanging there completely naked, fully visible from the motorway below. Not sure if anyone spotted me, but thinking about it now, they likely did. It was very exciting; there’s something special about being totally nude in the outdoor sun or moonlight…

Another quirky position occurred when a new housing estate was built nearby. One night I climbed onto a roof ready for tiling where wooden battens were already in place. I secured myself firmly to them upside down. I still remember how the lights from the opposite houses illuminated me well; anyone walking out that evening just needed to look up.

On another occasion, I walked over local fields to a large oak tree standing centrally and performed a nice suspension there.

I have several ideas for further outdoor adventures and might even be persuaded to take some photos. One concept is building a wooden cross where I can lie spread-eagled. I’d drill holes through the wood at wrist height, using rope loops threaded through with ice blocks on the other side to act as a release mechanism when they melt. This would happen in my garden on a moonlit night, so neighbors “could” potentially see me.

I also have an oak tree in my garden where I’m considering suspension, but this time using two large blocks of ice combined with just enough extra weight above me to counterbalance and lift me into the position. As they melt, I lower back down. The tree is right by the road too, so there’s a high chance of being seen by passing cars.

My third planned idea involves placing a key in a locked box about half a mile along the road from my home, situated within the woods. I’d tie myself up and lock my hands behind my back with a padlock (the key to this padlock is inside that distant locked box). My legs would need some restraint to make movement slightly harder. This means walking down the open road past neighbors’ houses for a few hundred yards, then out into the field opposite along its edge and into the wood, back onto the road to avoid thick undergrowth, and finally returning through the woods to retrieve the key before heading home completely naked. I don’t do dressing up.

Pleased to be here…:wink: