Greetings from Naomi

Hi everyone! I happened across this community while hunting for DIY bondage equipment, self-bondage guides and general info, and I’m really happy to have found it. You might say I’ve always felt drawn to self-bondage; looking back at my early years, I remember tying myself up with jump ropes and rolling around in blankets until I was securely bound. I took a break from it for some time before rediscovering my passion for bondage and BDSM during late middle school or early high school (roughly ages 13 to 15). Now that I’m here again as a 21-year-old woman, I’m ready to feed this strong craving. Honestly, finding this place felt like reconnecting with an old friend after years apart.

I have a wonderful relationship with my boyfriend of nearly four years; we’re planning for marriage (though I made it clear he can’t propose until we finish university). He’s shown some interest in bondage—I tied him down once but haven’t quite managed to get him to return the favor yet. Through exploring this myself, I hope to find ways to pique his interest and draw him in more (although self-bondage is perfectly suitable for long periods of time apart).

By the way, under my alias Naomi Ai on most other forums and sites; if you know that name from elsewhere, please tell me where we’ve crossed paths and who you are there. Feel free to drop a “hi”!