BondageDating

Spice Up My First Scenario

Hi everyone, My girlfriend is heading to Germany tomorrow for a few days, so I thought this would be the perfect opportunity to test out a new scenario.…

member_e9ce6c6ef7 6 Sept 2026 #1

Hi everyone, My girlfriend is heading to Germany tomorrow for a few days, so I thought this would be the perfect opportunity to test out a new scenario. It’s not too extreme since it’s only my first time… I planned on using a chair as a bondage frame. I’ll tie my legs to each leg of the chair where appropriate and sling belts tightly around my thighs, crotch, and abdomen (around the chair itself). The chair isn’t high enough for me to attach my neck to anything above - but with selfbondage maybe that’s not such a bad thing anyway…:wink:

I also picked up a butt plug today for the very first time; it has a decent sucker on the bottom. I was planning to stick that to the chair as well so my rear is securely plugged while I wait. For getting out, I’m going with the tech route (even though some might argue against it!) which will be thoroughly tested of course. My hands will then be handcuffed to the belt around my ribs using a combination lock so I can’t reach down to fix myself or hopefully get at my head. This setup should prevent me from spinning the belt and thus rotating my hands as well!

For release, I’m using Piclokit - a program that displays the correct combination picture for the padlock on my screen after a set duration (which I’ll photograph and configure on the computer without peeking at the combo… I’m thinking of setting the timer for about 30 minutes initially since I’m still fairly new to sb. The reason for such a short time is that although I enjoy being tied up, once settled in position I tend to get bored waiting. I’m torn between liking the lack of control and having nothing else to do!

This is where your input comes in - how can I make this session either better or at least more INTERESTING? Any thoughts? (fyi I have another set of handcuffs, a wired vibrating bullet, my gf’s vibrating clit stim rabbit (a bit too large for me!), several extra padlocks, plenty of belts and ties, her glass dildo (waaaaay too big), blindfold ballgag, and honestly anything else I feel like buying - provided it isn’t too pricey or hard to find)

Thanks in advance for your suggestions!