Just arrived

I guess I should start by explaining myself. I’m a shy guy who’s straight, male, and currently 39 when it comes to bondage. It took me quite a while to stop feeling strange about being into bondage, but I still keep it fairly private except for the women Ive had the pleasure to bind and gag. It never fails to surprise me how many women love to be tied up. Two years ago I moved from Ohio to New Zealand, and i dont know many people here, let alone anyone i can talk to about this topic. Im not into self-bondage for myself, but i stumbled upon this site by accident and was amazed by the stories i read. It’s great to see a womans side of it. I would just like to talk to like minded people such as myself. Im not one of those weird freaks that lives in his mothers basement, I have a great job, i make great money, (my only weird fettish is being a guitar junkie, i buy too many) Ive tried a few bondage chatrooms, but they proved to be nothing but liars or run by hitler-wanna-be’s. Mostly people that played one too many games of dungeuns and dragons in highschool. Thats not real. I only want to talk to real people with real conversation.