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Hi all, First off: WARNING LOOOOOONNNGGG POST:D I wanted to share some small adventures from this week. The last time I took pictures in my corset and…

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Hi all, First off: WARNING LOOOOOONNNGGG POST:D I wanted to share some small adventures from this week. The last time I took pictures in my corset and women’s clothes, it marked the start of a new “era” for me as a cross-dresser. It had been over a month since I last dressed up before these photos were taken. In December, I met someone, and we tried acting out switch roles because we are both subs. Although it worked well for me (it was fun to be the dominant one for once), my partner didn’t quite get into it. Even though I’ve been asked to do something really new: going to work wearing very girly lace panties and a butt plug… it was tough, and I would have quit if it wasn’t an order from someone else. The reason I start with this little story is that what happened today is directly linked to the fact that I miss having someone give me orders:D. And it happened twice! In this story, and in the next one (link below). So on Monday, after work, I went to a mall near my workplace. My intention was just to buy food and normal items, but at the shop entrance, I saw some discounted jeans and shoes. Knowing that women here are generally slim, I thought the last pair of jeans and shoes left would fit me:D But come on, it’s a mall… cameras everywhere, and since it was late in the evening, all the staff were rearranging products… Anyway, it turned out to be the perfect opportunity to get some nice women’s pants that I could wear outside without drawing too much attention! So I went there and looked for my size in jeans… playing with my phone as I asked someone about sizes etc… (yeah, that’s lame as I’m sure nobody cares what I’m doing…!!!). I checked the shoe basket too and found some very cute high heels for around 10€… The max size was 41, and while I usually wear women’s size 43, it looked so tempting. I knew they would fit but might be a bit painful! I decided to finish my shopping first and return later to grab the pants and shoes at the last minute. I didn’t want to push my cart around the mall for an hour with high heels in it:D especially without a girl next to me. I shopped quickly, thinking all the time about the jeans and shoes… Finally, I went back to get them and headed to the cashier (not sure if that’s the right word for where you pay). And guess what? As fate is often mischievous, the security tag on the shoes refused to come off! So I waited 5 minutes while three mall employees tried to find a solution! Such an embarrassing moment:D lol. In the end, I got the jeans and shoes and went home to try them on. The heels were great and less painful than others I’ve bought, but they are definitely too small XD. The jeans were also really tight! I decided to take the jeans in my bag the next day for an exchange. So all day at work, I had a woman’s pair of jeans in my bag! Hopefully nobody looked inside or accidentally knocked it out. So on Tuesday evening, I went back to a mall again!. I asked to change the size of one jean and then headed to a shop I know sells both men’s and women’s clothes so my entrance wouldn’t raise any questions or odd looks from other people. Once inside, my heart started beating faster and my body temperature skyrocketed:D in anticipation of what I was going to ask the first saleswoman I saw. My original plan was to ask for a top to match the jeans (which I thought were slim:p, but they weren’t!) and try on tops while asking for advice. So I asked the saleswoman if she spoke English, but she didn’t understand any word I said! She led me to her colleague (another woman) who did speak English. And I asked:

  • Hello… it’s pretty strange and hard to ask but… ahem… I have a party next week and you know… I need to buy a top for this event.
  • *mhm…
  • I mean, you know I’m going cross-dressing for the party, and I don’t have any friends who can lend me women’s clothes that fit…
  • But I don’t get it, what is the theme of this party? Well, it’s the usual “Girls as boys and boys as girls,” you know.
  • Ahh… yeah smile I see.* So a friend lent me slim jeans, but I need to find something for my top that matches them. For your friend?* No… ahem… for me! I need a woman’s top to match the women’s jeans for the party.
  • Ah ok, let me think about it smile. What is the price limit? Well, since you are doing sales, something nice but not too expensive. Ok smile.* I think she started enjoying the idea as she directly led me to the cutest and girliest piece in the shop… a pink tank top, stretchy, with lots of frilly details. The kind of thing you wear to go clubbing! I played the guy who is really not into that and wants something more neutral (in fact, I thought she would show me some blouses or basic tank tops). She showed me two other tops including a white one very transparent that goes down halfway up my thighs, and a pink/purple skintight top with long sleeves and a cute front.
  • Do you want to try? Which one? Well, I don’t know what I’ll look like in these, definitely not the first pink top, it’s too much I guess… So try the other two.* Can I? Yes sure laugh.* Ok… sad look
  • This direction (showing me the women’s changing rooms).* I went there and tried both. I almost got stuck in the white one. It had firm seams to give it a specific shape on shoulders, breasts, and hips, and it was hard to get off. My heart raced when I realized I was stuck! But with some effort (I didn’t want to ask for help XD especially because she was far away in the shop), I managed to get out. I liked it but preferred the purple one.

Then I went back to the shop wearing my men’s clothes:

  • Well, they fit well… feel strange but fit good. Do you think of anything else I could get? Maybe something warmer like a sweater? Let’s see smile.* She led me to another spot and showed me some other tops… I could have taken all of them!!!!! Some were exactly what I was looking for: girly t-shirts. But I just let it go and followed the salesgirl. We didn’t find much more so I asked to try the first top, the pink girly one. She gave it to me, and I tried it on. This time I took the new jeans from my bag and put them on as well to see the whole picture. I found out they weren’t quite as slim as I thought:s So I came up with a plan! Well, I sent pictures of the tops to my GF (haha… fake one!) and she said that both look good and I’m doing so well that she won’t lend me her pants; I need to ask you for some slim jeans. And if she likes the outfit, she’ll pay for everything! smiling. And I will take both tops because she can’t decide which one fits me best, so she’ll choose before the party… So you need slim jeans for her? (I think she still had some trouble understanding that it was all for me lol). No… for me blushing ohh… ok, hum let me think…*

I followed her in the shop to get some slim jeans. She asked if they have to be denim; I looked surprised like “what else could it be?” She told me “normal fabric,” and I said that I don’t know… whatever matches the tops:D She gave me two pairs of jeans to try. One was truly slim, and I couldn’t close it. The other one was a tube-style pair which, according to me, fit very well. But having no knowledge of how women’s jeans should fit, I put my men’s jeans back on and went over to ask her:

  • Hum, one jean is way too small, and the other one I can buckle it but I don’t know if it fits correctly. mhm* The jeans, how they look when worn? err… you want me to come and have a look?* Well no er… embarrassed just tell me how it should look like.* I don’t know… Arg… ok, can you take a look? Sure.

Back in the changing room… put the jeans back on… and my mind was going: “what if she takes a picture! or asks all her colleagues to come and see? omg!” but without more thinking I poked my head out and as

Okay for her. Then I pulled back the curtain to reveal my whole figure in these jeans. It was the first time a girl saw me dressed like this!! She let out a little laugh, part admiration as she said:

  • Wow, it looks good! Maybe even too good! You look great in them.
  • Really? So they fit properly?
  • Absolutely, it’s amazing how well they suit you.
  • Thanks. I closed the curtain and dressed back up like a guy… Then I stepped out wearing my two tops and jeans, went over to her and said:
  • Thanks for helping… I just got another text from my girlfriend. She wants me to find shoes now… but I told her it’s impossible to find shoes in my size, and that it was enough!
  • Ahaha she smiled I think she’s enjoying this a lot.
  • Yeah, maybe too much… shoes…! Come on.
  • smiles
  • Where do I pay?
  • Over there…
  • Ah, you don’t do the … (seeing a guy at the cashier)
  • smiles No. (She had clothes to rearrange).
  • Thanks again then.
  • she smiled The guys at the counter were busy so after 15 seconds the girl came over:
  • Ok, I’ll do it for you.
  • Hehe thanks.
  • You know you made really good choices here. These look really nice on you.
  • Thanks, you helped a lot.
  • I think your girlfriend will be jealous of you!
  • I hope so smile and if she wants my clothes, I’ll tell her “get some weight up and you’ll fit into them” (this was clearly a mistake!!!:s) ahah
  • You’re going to look good at this party anyway.
  • With all that stuff on, I hope so smile again, and if my girlfriend wants the same as me, I’ll tell her to come and buy them by herself next time! I paid…
  • Have a nice party.
  • Thanks a lot, and thanks for the advice.
  • You’re welcome. I left and got home… That was a terrific experience:) actually it was the second one. The second where I get to try on clothes right in the store.

BUT! I’m disappointed that I didn’t say it was just for me:( and I really would have liked to buy a sweater and a coat:D So I could be entirely dressed as a normal woman and go out! (I just need regular shoes now).shoes now). Read next story: going out with the stuff I bought!