GF caught me in self-bondage and I had a great time

Well this is my first post here. I have read a lot of posts and found them so interesting that I finally decided to make my own user and share my little stories with you.

This story took place a few days ago; I have been into self bondage since I was 15-16 years old or so, at the age of 19 I settled down for a girl. However there’s a flaw in my relationship. I love sex and all types of sex, but my girlfriend kind of doesn’t:P. Yeah we can have sex every day for sure but she only wants regular sex, no anal, and she didn’t wanna give me a blowjob; it took 6 months before I could even lick her. And she doesn’t swallow or even take it in the mouth; since I’m such a sexual person I found it a little sad that she wasn’t.

The first year in my relationship was great: I love her so much and never felt like leaving her ever! Even if we never had sex I wouldn’t, and she loves me back the same way. However I felt like something was missing so I turned back to selfbondage, which I haven’t done since before I met her; we moved in together in our own apartment and she would have her low sex drive while I would have mine. Luckily for me I worked shifts, and she worked daytime so I could do my bondage sessions alone safely.

I never told her I did selfbondage; however I told her I loved the idea of bondage, which she didn’t! Eventually we would start exploring things: she wanted me to try anal on her and we did once or twice, then she’d blow me off and swallow once or twice.

Then one day I decided I could tell her in a way she’d find fun. She’s very open minded and wouldn’t care if I did selfbondage anyway, so I figured it’s time to come out of my closet!:D I dressed up in a g-string with a mini skirt sexy pantyhose, a bra with socks on top, and a top; did some makeup on myself and sat down waiting for her to get home from work. When she got in she laughed and was amazed at how much I looked like a woman, and we started kissing etc and ended up in bed..

We had sex and she loved it when I still had my sexy outfit and makeup on; we started talking after sex and I told her how I loved dressing up like this and had kept it a secret since we started dating. One thing led to another, turns out she does self bondage herself but always been afraid to try doing these things with me lol Turns out we both have our little bag of sex toys gags and ropes, and I had the best day of my life hehe.. Now we do bondage together; supprise each other by being tied up when we get home from work took our relationship to a whole new level. We lived together for 3 years without even knowing we both loved doing this, and turns out she’s a very sexual person afterall. Guess you never really know someone completely:) And if my English is bad I’m so sorry; I’m actually Norwegian:)