BondageDating

Scenario Proposal...please! (including reward)

After being away from this forum for quite a while, I’ve managed to find my way back... and it turns out my love for bondage, along with related interests…

member_d8f4b35306 4 Sept 2026 #1

After being away from this forum for quite a while, I’ve managed to find my way back… and it turns out my love for bondage, along with related interests and toys, has only grown during that time. Naturally, I feel the need to accept a dare:P I’m fairly skilled at self-bondage… if you check out the scenario I set up recently, you’ll see how well I can leave myself helpless… Here is where I posted it: the archived discussion Unfortunately, my beloved “chin-up” frame is gone since I moved to a smaller home. However, I still live by myself. I’m seeking a dare that focuses heavily on bondage; lately, I’ve grown very interested in predicament styles as well. Watersports and needles aren’t really my thing. I’d prefer not to do anything public-facing—not because the idea doesn’t appeal to me, but simply because being tightly bound makes venturing out tricky… though perhaps you have a suggestion?:o The Reward If you propose a dare that I accept, I will reply with another detailed story about this predicament experience similar to the one mentioned above. The darer gets full credit for any pleasure or pain involved. If everything goes smoothly, I’ll likely become a regular contributor of both dares and stories… Photos are unlikely but not impossible, especially if you’re:gag: enough to warrant them…:lol: So, if you’ve read this and have an idea or predicament setup in mind for me…I’m all attention (or rather eyes):rofl: (yes, I admit my humor is a bit cheesy) To the person hopefully bringing some bondage thrill into my life here’s some general info about me plus a list of toys… Interests: Bondage, forced orgasm, nipple torture, gags (I absolutely must have a gag, no exceptions), sensory deprivation, anal play, corsets, crotch ropes (my toy inventory should give you plenty of clues), etc. Favorite positions (some): Hogtie, Frogtie, Ball-tie, Strappado (Basically, if I’m heavily restrained, I love it!) Most Recent activity: Recently doing the DIY Box-tie position inspired by this community. Tying my legs (ankles, knees, crotch rope), adding nipple clamps (usually clover style), then placing EMT scissors and the Magic Wand opposite each other across the room as a reward for when I reach them… Still unsure what fits? Read the linked story…it covers most of it… Release mechanism: Open to suggestions from you…can manage most methods found in this community though I typically use ice release, EMT scissors, etc. Duration/Endurance: I can last a long time, but bear in mind that longer scenarios require setting aside more time to play them out fully. Ideally 1-4 hours…but open to all ideas! Lastly, No private chats via messaging apps or similar programs regarding this. I love bondage and dedicate plenty of time to it, but my time is precious and limited. Plus, this is a public forum where I come for inspiration and ideas as well as sharing what little knowledge I have…so any questions you have can be asked right here in this thread. Toys (it’s quite the list): -Restraints Multiple Leather straps of varying lengths i.e. 12”, 24”, 36”, and 48” Two 2” Buckling Nylon Straps (length unknown but used for binding ankle to thigh) Abundant Hemp Rope from Twisted Monk Lots of general rope i.e. cotton, nylon, etc. Multipurpose twine Handcuffs Leather ankle and wrist cuffs 4” posture collar 3” posture collar Basic leather collar with ring attachments Tape (Duct, electrical) Zip ties Locks -Gags (My favorite area of play; I think I own nearly every one from Hott Bonds, lol) Ball gag Bit Ball Pony bit gag Harness-panel ball gag Chin-strap ball gag (a little tricky after a while since it’s 2.25 inches in diameter…it’s a love/hate relationship) Leather wrapped ring gag (also large at just over 2 inches…takes quite a lot to fill my mouth:lol: ) Deluxe Ball Gag (I don’t own it yet, really want one and if the dare includes it might be reason enough to buy…see it here: … d=Vzbbhinz ) Inflatable harness gag with blindfold Body Bag Gag (sounds odd I know, see it here: ) (I think that’s all of them, but could be mistaken…) -Torture stuff Tweezer style nipple clamps Clover Clamps (two pairs) Clothespins Tens Unit, currently only have the sticky pads available Enema supplies Sensory Deprivation Stuff: Hood (I have two: one zips up with an opening for a gag of course:P, and another is full deprivation leather that locks at the back with laces, leaving just a mouth opening for air) Ear Plugs Headphones (usually use my iPod so if you suggest a track…) Blindfolds -Fun stuff Hitachi Magic Wand Dildos Butt Plugs (one standard and one inflatable) Plethora of DVDs/Videos Clothing (things I’ve typically worn in bondage, though usually naked or adding just a few items to feel naughty): Sheer nylon stockings Fishnets 6” stiletto boots (they extend above the knees) Black under-bust corset Etc. Misc.: 2” metal rings (used for the Special Ring Device) EMT scissors If you don’t see anything on this list that would work well in a dare…please suggest, I’m always looking to expand my collection!:mrgreen: Also feel free to ask questions about what’s available in my environment i.e. chairs, stools, bed, etc. So, I’ve revealed my hand…what do you have?:twisted: