Strolling Around Without Being Aroused

Even though the folks I’ve told about my dressing don’t know that being sexual is a huge part of why I do it, going out in public is mainly to get sexually aroused. From what I gather here, cross-dressing as a way to turn on seems to be the standard (though not everyone does it for that specific reason).

Has anyone who dresses primarily for sexual arousal gone out after they’ve finished relieving themselves? Just curious about how the emotional experience compares. It feels like doing it when those sexy thoughts aren’t dominating my mind might change everything, but I’m not sure how to talk myself into going out right then.

And masturbating while out there is… well, probably off the table. I’m planning on walking with a friend next time and if I just whip it out in public to get relief, our friendship isn’t quite that kind of close.

Hmm… Just pondering this. I’d like to give it a try eventually, at least for comparison’s sake. Has anyone else tried this?