Greetings and a Joyful Solstice!

It’s quite thrilling to have stumbled upon this community! I’m a man over 50, married without children, residing in the US. I used to work as both a chemist and for the postal service, but now I spend my time archiving historical financial records. My wife and I are experiencing a midlife revival; we’ve gone from having vanilla sex about once a month to engaging in plenty of sucking, poking, and prodding three or four times each week. It’s unfortunate that it took us 25 years of marriage to learn how to communicate effectively regarding our intimacy. Regardless, I’ve had an interest in bondage since I was around ten or twelve. After suppressing this desire for four decades, the need to be bound and flogged has surfaced once more. So let it happen! I am confident that you all can impart some valuable knowledge to me! Tom