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The Morality of Bondage

Darlings, I've set up a poll to check how we view the morality of our delicious interests. I'd like to know if others have or still struggle with personal…

member_73423c7707 23 Aug 2026 #1

Darlings, I’ve set up a poll to check how we view the morality of our delicious interests. I’d like to know if others have or still struggle with personal moral questions concerning bondage in general. I’ll begin by saying it took me quite some time—a VERY long time—to resolve my own issues regarding bondage. There were periods where I swore it off for a few months, only to find myself drawn back, then swearing it off again. This cycle lasted about two decades until I finally decided there was nothing wrong with what I do. It felt like liberation, as if I’d broken free from another type of chain.:shock: That moment defined my life and changed everything.

member_a1750d4189 23 Aug 2026 #2

I know exactly what you mean. For ages I had guilt issues about bondage and CDing, and it was only through a period of substance abuse (which obviously I don't recommend) that I learned so much about myself and made some key life decisions and changes.