BondageDating

Describe Your Preferred Bondage Style

Hello! I’m a 28-year-old transgender woman. I’ve been practicing selfbondage for over half my life and have followed this forum since its inception. I’m…

member_f5d8b4c13e 1 Sept 2026 #1

Hello! I’m a 28-year-old transgender woman. I’ve been practicing selfbondage for over half my life and have followed this forum since its inception. I’m getting weary of the routine and would appreciate suggestions on how you’d like to see me tied up.

Attire: I can handle almost any outfit. I really enjoy garters paired with vintage nylon stockings, along with plenty of boots or high heels that allow for locking mechanisms. There’s also a cat suit option where I can zip it onto a lockable collar and so on.

Equipment:

  • Lockable wrist cuffs, ankle cuffs, and a collar equipped with D-rings.
  • A collection of padlocks.
  • Two combination locks whose codes are currently unknown to me. Photos showing the correct combinations are stored in a .zip folder within my TimeLock system, allowing me to utilize both simultaneously.

Several pairs of authentic handcuffs.

  • An abundance of rope.
  • A trainer-style ball gag.
  • Nipple clamps alongside various other toys.
  • More than sufficient lengths of cordage.
  • Straps, belts, string, and similar items.

Feel free to assume I possess any standard household objects that might serve unconventional purposes. Oh, I also have a pull-up bar that fits into a doorway; if you haven’t tried it yet, you’re missing out on something great. It’s excellent for strappado standing positions or while balancing with legs tied in a frog style.

I prefer strict hogties, as well as other secure bindings where my arms might be spread apart or extended outward, along with sensory deprivation techniques, etc. Any predicament or humiliation scenarios work too: imagine being locked inside that cat suit and needing to use the restroom while the keys are located on the opposite side of the balcony. Clearly, selfbondage isn’t entirely risk-free, but I strive to be as safe as possible; typically avoiding tight gags unless my hands are positioned in front where I can reach them, or if they’re out of reach so that I can spit the gag out when necessary.

I’ll return shortly.:gag: ~Niki