a bit surprising

“one thing I have noticed about this forum is that no “flaming” goes on, as it does on others, so I hope this won’t start it happening here. I’ve been on this forum for a while and have learnt a lot, not least that I’m not alone in my kinks, and made some “virtual” friends too. I’ve been into CD, and SB for many years, as a sexual release I suppose. About 8 months ago I hit 60 and suddenly thought “I should try this for real before it’s too late” So I plucked up courage and went to my first Munch, then a play party, and things have rather escalated from there. I find I’m a switch rather than a sub, have a regular play-partner and am having a fantastic time doing all the kinky things I dreamt of. Now I never do SB, and as my “play” clothes are my leather skirt etc, I CD openly every couple of weeks or so. So why am I saying this. No, it’s not an ego trip, and yes I really am doing all the kinky stuff, it isn’t fiction. It’s because I spent so many years wishing I could do it for real but never taking the first step, then doing so and realising the step wasn’t very big at all. Obviously I can’t speak for everywhere, but the UK scene is very welcoming, Munches are a great way to get involved. I know there are many for whom the step will always be too big, and there are those who are entirely happy with their SB or whatever. But for those who are hovering on the brink, jump in, you won’t regret it.”,