Greetings from Sussex!

Hi everyone… this looks like a wonderful site with some brilliant concepts… I’m a fairly ordinary 43-year-old man, interested in bondage and leaning towards the cane as well. I also enjoy ladies’ shoes, though I wouldn’t go so far as to call myself a crossdresser. My main goal here is to find someone locally nearby who can swap bondage ideas with me, perhaps serve as a reliable partner when I attempt selfbondage scenarios (and naturally, vice-versa—ideally a woman, but a solid male friend would work just as well). I’m eager to test out some of the concepts posted here, starting with the simpler ones and moving up to more advanced techniques… it would be great to have someone join me on this selfbondage journey…