beginning my journey

I am seriously thinking about getting locked up with my favorite part. It feels like another form of self-”punishment,” similar to what a mistress might do if I had one. Plus, it would push my body just a bit further.

So, I need recommendations for a website focused on chastity. Any ideas? However, I want to read up more before making a purchase. I am leaning toward a cage rather than a belt. I think I like the birdcage style better than CBs (cock cages). My only worry is whether the softness of the birdcage prevents an erection or if I can still masturbate while wearing it.

I have been reading, and it seems that birdcages are more comfortable and easier for long-term wear (weeks to months). Is this accurate? Is there a product even better than these? Any suggestions? thanks