Fresh Corset for a Guy?

Where can I buy one and how do I figure out the right size, umm… intensity? Like, what kind of tightness will it have around my waist? I’m looking for a bit of restricted breathing to give me that slight sense of false panic. Not full-on waist training though; I’m just a guy.

I’m 5’7” and about 165 lbs, if that helps with the sizing guess. I can already picture Jenny chiming in saying custom is best, but since that’s not an option here… shh:gag: lol

eBay has plenty of options; they seem to sell everything under the sun there. But I’d rather avoid eBay if possible (though if it turns out to be the best place, so be it. I’ll manage fine lol).

I heavily prefer white or black leather btw