In-Person Meeting with a Stranger for Bondage Play

Hi there,

The discussion I want to start here isn’t entirely about self-bondage, so bear with me if this feels slightly off-topic. I’ve also been active in another SB forum lately. A member from that community—an energetic contributor who has sent around 100 messages since joining last September—asked if I’d like to meet up for some “play” bondage together. He noticed we live quite close, only about 40 miles apart. We are both men and heterosexual—I admit I would have preferred a woman asking:lol—but the prospect is genuinely interesting. To be honest, not every type of restraint can be achieved through self-bondage (at least while retaining an escape route), and doing it with someone else adds to your experience significantly. Perhaps being tied up by another man in fresh positions is preferable to going solo:wink:. However, I’m hesitant about whether I should actually take the step—you never know what kind of character you’re dealing with or how things might unfold once he has you bound… What do you think? How would you handle this? Cheers, Marcus