Thoughts on having a female boss?

Hi everyone, Lately I’ve been reflecting: I’m a woman, and my best friend (who is also female) acts as my mistress, which I adore. The sensation differs from what I experience with my boyfriend during our play sessions. For instance, when interacting with him, the arousal is primarily sexual. However, serving her gives me a sense of belonging to her, and I cherish this precisely because she shares my gender. Does that make me odd? I’d appreciate some reassurance, -Nicole