Greetings everyone!

I’m returning to share some great news. I’ve achieved a level of success that once seemed out of reach. Roughly three months ago, I wrote about how important it is to ask the right question to see if a partner is truly “interested” in BDSM. Unfortunately, two previous partners just weren’t “into it.”

I’m an executive with a successful career—stable and sane. I take my role as a family member seriously. That said, I do enjoy binding my partner (using predicament bondage, tight bindings, etc.) and having vigorous sex.

About six weeks ago, I hired a personal trainer at a nearby gym. I told her I wanted an intense workout to get really fit. She delivered, pounding my body three times a week. For two days after each session, I was so sore it was hard to walk. What set this trainer apart was her intensity; she pushes herself to failure and possesses incredible strength and core power (abs). Now, thanks to my good genetics, our arm and leg strengths are roughly equal. It will take me about a year to match her overall body strength.

We discussed many subjects: business, kids, life in general. When the topic of sex came up, I engaged with it fully. We were both seeking something similar but hadn’t found it elsewhere. Her previous boyfriends weren’t keen on working out and didn’t qualify as “strong men” (in terms of family presence, career, decisiveness). Oh, and they lacked enough aggression in the bedroom. Holy shit — ----extremely hot----

Every day since then has been exceptionally intense. We communicate openly, and she loves being dominated (or so I initially believed). She admires my power, business acumen, and family strengths, as well as how I handle her in bed (binding her up and having vigorous sex). Since we’ve moved in together, everything has shifted ooooooooooooo…

She worked me out particularly hard on the first day she arrived… it was tough. On our first night, while I was penetrating her (she was lying prone), she grabbed my sore glutes with her hands. She is really strong. Every time I tried to pull one of her hands away by gripping them, she laughed and dug the other hand into my sore muscles. Once I managed to pin both her hands down, she started kicking and grinding her feet into my already sensitive backside. Eventually, I pinned her firmly and nailed her hard. She laughed and declared that no play session would be easy from now on.

On the second night, she quickly flipped positions to get on top of me and hold me there (she can squat 225lbs with ease). Her leg muscles are incredible. As I tried to escape, she laughed again, saying, “So you thought you had a little miss submissive.” Her laugh is truly evil, wicked, and nasty. She teased me, pumping up and down for over forty minutes. Her endurance is amazing, and I couldn’t get her off me.

The following day, I took “Little Miss Submissive” to a bondage shop (her first time there), and she was speechless. I bought leather restraints, a ring gag, and handcuffs. I realized that if I didn’t secure her hands quickly with cuffs, I’d have no chance of tying her down in the future.

Two days ago, I hid the handcuffs under the bed. After ensuring she had an intense workout earlier, I lay next to her at bedtime. As we settled, I reached under the mattress for the cuffs. The bitch knew exactly what I was doing and asked if I was going for them. Naturally, this sparked over thirty minutes of intense wrestling for possession of the handcuffs. Eventually, I managed to get one hand behind her back (after enduring plenty of biting and abuse). Even with her cuffed, it took another ten minutes to tie her legs together. I was totally exhausted while she laughed her ass off. Afterward, I screwed the hell out of her face and pussy. When we were done, she advised that if she gets hold of my hands, she will return what I do to her times five. She warned me that she will fuck my ass too and doesn’t care if it makes me cry (I’m not used to this side, never tried it myself, but I know that if I mess up once or get lazy, I’ll find myself in a very bad place). Since then, she has informed me that I need to sleep “sometime”.

So now, I have an incredible relationship with someone who is a Switch. She has amazing body control and seems to understand everything about sex and how to build intense orgasms. During the night, after particularly intense scenes, she dreams of sex and bumps against me while sleeping. She says that in the future, she wants me to play rape her often, everywhere. She desires being captured, spanked, whipped, tied in every position, manhandled, and fucked through all three holes. She also enjoys role-playing and now has outfits for schoolgirl scenarios, etc.

If I fail at this dynamic, then I am “totally fucked” (her exact words). We complement each other outside the bedroom too, so life is good in every way.

Normal bondage play doesn’t quite work here. If I try to tie her hands with rope alone, I know she will bunny kick me, bite me, and likely end up handcuffed/tied while being raped. **That said, I need some suggestions on how best to tie her. I’d like to bind her in an Ebu (Shrimp) pose or tuck her into a ball tie so that I can enjoy her. If I waste too much time with ropes/leather lace, she will overpower me or cause damage. Any ideas? **