Hi there.

Hey…I figured since I started hanging out on the forums and seeing how wonderful everyone is, it was time to say hello. I’m a 26-year-old woman who’s fairly new to bondage. I’ve always enjoyed being tied up; back when I was little, even without any sexual motivation (or at least none that I knew of). I loved playing the kidnapper and also enjoying being kidnapped myself. I’d constantly beg my cousins and siblings to “capture” me, binding me to a chair or bed or whatever was nearby. Eventually they got bored with it, but as I grew up, this interest lingered until I met my current husband, who brought those feelings back into focus. My passion has been steadily climbing, so I decided to join a community of like-minded people. Here are my main interests in the bondage world (please bear with me if some terms aren’t quite right):

• Self-bondage. I haven’t tried it much yet because knotting isn’t exactly my strong suit, but I’m picking up the skills and plan to give it a shot when I can.
• M/f soft bondage. Being new to this side of things, the most intense I’ve gotten is leather cuffs. I mostly prefer softer materials like rope, tape, and especially silky scarves. I want to be bound securely without extreme pain or discomfort. Blindfolds are also a particular favorite for me.
• It might seem odd since I don’t love painfully tight bindings, but I really enjoy being hit, slapped, spanked, pinched, etc., and I absolutely adore pretending that I detest it all.
• Another big thing for me is looking messy while tied up. Just specific messes though. If you splash paint on me and let it dry, I’m in paradise.
• Since this forum talks a lot about dressing up, I thought my interest here would fit well. It’s not exactly cross-dressing since I am female, but costumes are huge for me. I get great joy from crafting elaborate, convincing outfits and wearing them around, even just casually (though it is sexually arousing). I haven’t tried vinyl or latex yet, but the look of those materials appeals to me greatly. Shoes are also important; specifically boots and heels when doing bondage play. Thanks for reading my long-winded intro—an introduction that feels perfect here.:)