A Hello from Upstate!

Hello everyone who shares similar interests! I’m a 26-year-old guy from New York’s capital, here to say hello to those of you who understand the personal experiences I sometimes struggle to share with people outside this community. Actually, I used to visit but vanished for two or three years (thanks to my partner) and have just returned. Since I only posted twice back then, I doubt anyone will remember me. My relationship with the last girl was a bit unstable, so self-bondage has once again become my personal way of finding pleasure. Like many others, I got into general bondage at a very young age. Watching cartoons and movies where people were tied up stirred something inside me. As I “grew up,” those feelings deepened until they turned into a full fascination. Several friends enjoyed tying me up (even though I didn’t fully grasp why), and it thrilled me enormously. Eventually, I found a girlfriend with similar tastes, albeit not as intense, followed by another who truly opened my eyes to the vast possibilities. Being creative, I’ve adapted some of my recent partner’s scenarios into self-bondage routines… all while keeping safety in mind, I might add. Over time, I can go into more detail about them. None are overly “wild,” but they do have their unique twists. Before joining this forum for the first time, I thought my fetishes and joys were just a dirty little secret of mine—something only total oddballs did in their free time. It wasn’t until I was around 22 that I realized what I loved was called bondage. Coming to these forums was an eye-opener; it showed me there are others like me, which put my mind at ease. Someone here once told me, “Some people collect stamps, while some prefer being tied up.” To each their own. As for my nickname, let’s just say the story behind it is quite interesting;p Everything will come in time. See you around on the forums!

• Scoot