! Hi There!

Apologies first off; I appear to have launched into a flurry of posts without properly introducing myself! I am a single, 37-year-old man with an engineering background who enjoys “dressing up” once in a while. Fortunately, I have a workshop where I can build and test my own release mechanisms and restraints. When I spot certain setups proposed online:cry: it does worry me a little. I would love to boost the safety standards of self bondage without sacrificing too much of the excitement, although finding that balance is tricky; excessive safety might dull the thrill, while insufficient safety leaves one vulnerable … I am also trying to step out more and connect with other “scene” folks at clubs and such, but it feels like a significant leap! Please play safe everyone, and I will do my best (and try) to answer any technical queries.